Tuesday, October 28, 2008
I just lost a so-called "friend" last night. He is one of the backpackers form Malaysia. He is a playboy and he actually sexually harass another friend of mine. They met for only 10 days and this guy actually ask for sex. My friend told me about this, and I was not happy. I did nothing. But the situation goes wrong when more and more people knows. Soon, the whole gang of people can roughly guess what is happening.
Last time I was having conversation with another taiwanese backpackers, I was shocked when they told me they actually knew about this long time ago. He used the same way to tackle most of the girls even from taiwan. Since then I know he is just so unctuous. Even the taiwanese knows about him.
When majority of the group were having a nice trip in Kelantan, both people called me during nighttime, when we were all actually sleeping. They kept asking me. I think I should tell them as they deserved to know. I don't know how the story goes if they continue to guess blindly. And I think they deserve to know as they are also members of this group, even I promised him not to mentioned this issue again. But I think what I did is correct lo. If some of your friends did some evil deed and ask you to keep it as secrets, will u do so? At least I don't think that is what a friend should do lo. For me, I think we, as a friend, when a friend of mine did something bad, I will confront and advice him/her lo. Besides that, I think the other people deserve to know what is happening lo. This is not that personal. Sooner or later people will know. But I don't care now.
Yesterday night when I was sleeping, he phoned me around 1230am and scolded me. I never fight back and he hanged up the phone. Smsed a few frens as I scare I will forget the content of conversation, I went to bed again. Then soon, he called back and scolded me for second time, then I began to fight back. (Usually I let him shoot whatever he want then let him hang up the phone.) But since I fight back, he scolded me with more harsh words and even touch on my religion. Finally he said he doesn't have a friend like me and wish me to go to hell soon.
Basically for me I think he just turn shame into anger as he claims that everyone knows what he did. He even phoned the girl and scolded her as he think the girl mislead everyone to think that he almost raped her. But still, I think what I did is correct and I don't really care what he is going to do to me. I believe people are not blind. They have their eyes to see. Time will prove everything.
Having bad mood because of this.. Sigh.. Why I get to know this kind of people one..
After talking to MichelleShia, I have a clearer mind. I should not say to lost a friend but to protect myself from evil. He is not a Christian and is behaving this way. This reminds me that the bible say do not allow evil to have a chance to come nearby you. Just like how our parents do not allow us to go out late at night because it is dangerous. I should stay away from him.
And now, I don't care if I lose this friend as I have nothing to lose. There is no changes if he is a friend or a stranger to me. If he knows I'm a true friend, he would come back to me after he has change.
Another friend of mine says "Open rebuke is better than hidden love. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. What I did is correct. I should rebuke him and also give warning to others because they might be in trouble too, especially girls."
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
8:20 PM