Friday, September 16, 2011
It has been 1 week since my last day @ MyDEAL.
Before I started working, a lot of seniors / friends advice me that I have to always protect myself as you can hardly get a sincere friend at workplace. I always choose to ignore it as I thought this is just a myth, but now reality prove to me that I'm wrong.
Not to say that I have been thinking too much over this past few days or what. But some incident happened yesterday and now I don't miss my working place anymore. It is so sarcastic when I still remember I told every of my interviewee that MyDEAL is a very special working place where you get FRIENDS instead of COLLEAGUES. We are more than just colleagues. We hang out often (for movie, Karaoke, and alcohol) but once you are not part of the company, you are nothing.
I thought they knew me but in fact they are not. Suddenly I feel so scary as they are so fake and superb in pretending.
Perhaps it is time to go back to the reality. And thank you for letting me know at the correct timing. At first I miss my working place and all the workmate so much. But now, I can proudly say that, MyDEAL is no longer important to me anymore.
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
6:01 PM
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Sunday, March 20, 2011
Finally I had a day for myself.
To be honest, since I started working, I seldom had break. I spent most of my time and my attention to my job. Since this is my first job, I always make sure that I am performing well and I need to finish my all task.
However, I don't like my life. Sometimes I felt like I'm a machine. I spent almost 12 hours working a day. Sometimes I never see my parents for a few days. My home is like a hotel to me.
Finally I decided to get crazy for 1 day. Skipped the youth leadership training this morning. Spent most of the day on the things I used to do back in uni time. Surfing the website that I used to go, try some new recipe and sleep.
It is already 6am now. I felt tired but I don't want to sleep. Instead, I feel like I'm back to the uni kids whom I am allowed to be crazy and wild.
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Yes, all these while I'm being super rational.
That is why I can impress my boss and get the position I'm holding.
That is why I can having the stupid daily routine which make me hate my life.
and that is way I seems okay even it is now 8 months and 5 days since we broke up.
Sigh...to be honest, i still feel the pain. Yet, I choose to be rational. And I'm almost getting crazy just to keep myself always rational and doing the right thing.
AARRRGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
6:03 AM
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Saturday, January 01, 2011
Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for Your precious love and constantly showing Your mercy grace and faithfulness to me.
Here I praise You and unto Your hands I commit my whole life especially for the year 2011. May You continue to guide me, mold me with Your own ways. Made me the tunnel of Your blessing flows to people around me. Keep me as a good soil, so that I am sensitive to Your voice and continue to show me love and mercy so that I can be more like you.
In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
5:31 PM
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Sunday, August 22, 2010
finally it is my CONVO day!!!
and finally I'm home sweet home!!!
feeling exhausted after long day of running here n there and being fooled like a duck...
anyway, it is all over now! HURRAY!!!!
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
9:27 PM
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Sunday, August 15, 2010
sigh...2 weeks since I started working.
Have to cope with it and I need to start picking up other parts of my life URGENTLY.
honestly, I don't think I have a life now.
There are just endless problems between people for you to deal with when you are in an office. You need to be aware of potential backstabbers, and you need to deal with your colleagues really really carefully so that you won't pissed them off and get revenge from them. At the same time, you need to finish all the task given.
Ain't easy to be a working adult, right?
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
9:22 PM
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Friday, July 30, 2010
Emo now. Better not to talk nor type.
Just wanna say something out LOUD here. Or else you might see me @ tomorrow's headline.
You just never act what you have said or promise. You told everyone that you are fine and you can treat me just like a normal friend. Sorry you are not doing so lo. Remember last time we promised to give each other some time? What you did? You phoned me like nothing happened. You said good friends can share n chit chat like that. And you boiled leong shui for me. And then again you asked why cant a good friend boil leong shui? Admit it la~ you are just avoiding problems. And you are really good @ it.
You said you would support me to go overseas, for travel, for work or for studies. And we ended up almost break up 2 times when one in KL and another in hometown. And you promised not to buy anything for my nephew and niece. And guess how much you spent on them since you start working? I totally lost my faith on you.
Now you told everyone that you have calm down. And you know God's will. Sorry, based on the person I know. You are just avoiding Him. He is working. I can clearly see that. He made your life miserable. No matter church, serving, job, BGR or even family. If you still behave like this, sorry I must say that God will give you another bigger hit so that you can understand.
You said God gave you lots of good friends to show you love and support when He took something away. Honestly do you think that all of the friends are sent by God? DUH. Look around you. How many friends that you can really share everything and anything?
And at the same time, they can guide you and help you grow spiritually? ALMOST NONE.
I don't know if you still read my blog. But one thing I can for sure is you cant finish this post after reading the first 2 paragraphs. If you don't really face yourself and the problems lied between. Sorry to say God will just have to use another tough way.
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
1:54 AM
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Wednesday, July 21, 2010
FULAMAK!!! The last 2 posts here is like 2 years ago... So many things happened within this few years and yes. I’m like nothing but a stranger to some of you. (And I don't know why I m talking as if other people will read this)
To be honest, I wish this blog will be a private one but yet deep inside my heart I still hope that someday, somebody will come to me and say "hey! I read your blog, and I know you are facing problems, anyway, you are doing well so KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!"
Sigh...too early for day-dreaming...
YES, I can't deny that I feel lonely sometimes...
I have lots of friends.
I did my best to try to make more friends in university, but ended up I have bunch of people knowing my names and that's all. I don't think they know where I stay or where is my hometown. Most of them were hi-bye friends. Now guess what that leads to? YAY~ I have bunches of long-lost-hi-bye friends. What that means to me? I just don’t know and I don’t like it. Not like I will contact them when I am free. Neither I will call them for fun when I m bored nor hang out with them. So WHAT FOR I KEEP THEIR CONTACTS?!?! Sigh…
And the next question popped up. So how many close friends do you have? And how many of them really know you? And how many among those who really know you can cheer you up when you needed them most?
Honestly, I don’t know but I guess I have some of these from my church? Perhaps there might be some from UTAR CF? Other than that, honestly I don’t know.
And I feel bad when I think about my spiritual mates. I have a few since secondary school. But today, I don’t even know where they work? Or where they study… Really sad huh?
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
4:13 AM
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Sunday, November 29, 2009
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God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
6:15 PM
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Sunday, February 01, 2009
I need prayer support. Frankly speaking, I am LOST...yes, lost AGAIN...yup, lost again TODAY...
No grandma stories, straight to the point, it is about my studies again. I just don't know why God has chosen this path for my studies. My studies was great since I was small. I am always a good student before I entered UTAR. Everytime after a problem solved, God will put another problems in my studies until I cant tahan. Each time when I think God is done with my studies, God will immediately put something extra for me. I know the theories, I know I should claim the promises in bible not to worry and everything will turned out to be good but the process isn't comfortable for me.
The feeling is like walking alone in a dark small valley. Although I know God has control of everything but...I am scared. I don't understand why my campus life will be such different and special from others. Why can't I have a simple normal campus life? The studies in UTAR is always a torn in my body, like what Paul had. Everytime when I comes to studies, I think of Paul who asked God to take away the torn but God answered him in 2 Cor 12: 8-9 「And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 」
I need prayer support to really apply this scripture into my life. I am so worry for my studies, this semester, I am joining the a new batch of students whom I never study with them before. This is already 3rd time I need to fit in another batch of juniors. Not only fit in but I need to group with people to finish assignments while they already in groups. Besides that, I need to take courses with restructure syllabus (new lecturers of course) and redo all the assignments again.
I have been praying for big pictures in my life. Why God put my studies in such a situation I need to undergo all these. I almost beh tahan already!!! Please constantly pray for me especially for my studies. I am really lost.
God Bless U n ME...
written by, Xiang2Jian4...
12:12 AM
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*p/s :: this is slightly different..
This is because the oldest post on top..
